Diabetes Caregiving: Helping a Loved One, Chapter 5: Offering Help They Welcome

Supporting Checks and Appointments

Practical ways to help with readings, notes and visits, while leaving medicine decisions to the prescriber.

Describe practical ways to help with readings, records and visits to the care team.

A log is a list of blood sugar readings, with the date and time. Over days, it can show patterns one reading cannot.

One reading is like one photo. A log is like a short video. Many care teams welcome a report of the past 48 hours. Ask your loved one first whether they want your help with it.

Ask your care team how often they want readings.

Going along to a visit can help in two ways. You can take notes, so your loved one can focus on the conversation. You can also help write questions before the visit.

Put the most important topics first so they get covered in time. Bring the full medicine list to every visit, too. Ask first whether they want you there.

Only the prescriber changes a medicine. The prescriber is the doctor or nurse who writes the prescription. That includes starting it, stopping it or changing the dose. Family members should not change medicine on their own, even when a reading looks off.

Instead, write down what you noticed and bring it to the visit. The prescriber decides what happens next.

Key takeaways

  • A log of readings helps the care team see patterns across days.
  • Going along to a visit, with written questions, helps cover what matters most.
  • Medicine changes come from the prescriber, not from family members acting alone.

Try it

Ask your loved one what kind of help they want with readings and visits, and write down their answer.