First 30 Days After Diagnosis, Chapter 9: Planning the Next 3 Months

Setting Small Goals

Small, specific goals are easier to keep, and they give you steady progress to build on.

Set one or two goals you can keep, and know how to adjust them.

Small goals are easier to keep than big plans. They fit into a busy day. Start with one or two goals, not ten.

Make each goal specific. Say what you will do, how long, which days and when. A 10 minute walk after dinner on weekdays is clear. "Be more active" is not.

A paper calendar with the days Monday to Sunday across the top and three weeks down, with the weekend days shaded. Check off: a checkmark appears on each weekday of the first two weeks. Look each week: a magnifier passes over the checked days and an amber outline rings them, with the words What is working. Adjust: the calendar slides toward a doctor in a white coat, with the words Adjust goals.

Track your goal on a paper calendar with a checkmark each day. It works like a chore chart. Look at it once a week to see what is working.

Review your goal with your care team, and bring the calendar. Your team can help you change a goal that is too hard or too easy.

A paper calendar for one week, Monday to Sunday. Checks appear on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and Sunday, while Wednesday and Saturday stay blank, never more than two blank days in a row. At the end, a magnifying glass moves along the week to look back.

Key takeaways

  • Pick one or two goals to start with.
  • Make each goal specific, with a time and days.
  • Track your progress, and adjust goals as you learn.

Try it

Choose one small, specific goal and write down the day you will start it.

Next lesson: Your Check Calendar